NEW BOY not feeling it

I've been the one to call the new guy the last few times. So I'm not calling, he's going to have to call me. he's like every other guy wants to get laid. my friends say if i'm not into it then to not pursue it and I shouldn't feel like I'm greatful he's intrested. URGH MEN!!!
maybe I should go gay. I like girls well enough but I don't think I'm a lesbian.